Back during my youthful years, I’ve always told myself that “ career comes first, family comes later.” Lately, I’ve been finding myself banging my head on the wall due to the guilt from my past self. Growing up, I told myself that security was the most important thing to start a family. I needed a career first because it’s what I wanted, it’s what I needed!! Here I am years later, with a career and good security, and.... NO...